Outfit and styling for the first date – so you don’t fall into a styling trap

Styling traps: the do's and don'ts of your first date outfit

Let's start with the pitfalls you can fall into when choosing your outfit. With the following styling rules, you'll confidently avoid these faux pas and find just the right outfit for your first date.

Styling rules for women

Don't: A deep neckline and push-up bra

Of course, men are certainly not averse to a beautiful cleavage and even if the bust appears a little fuller, no man should be overly disappointed.

But do you really want the other person to remember your body more than the topics of your conversation?

Do: Only a slightly accentuated décolleté

It is much better and more discreet to only open the top button of your blouse for a first date, or to wear a slight V-neck.

It's not too revealing, yet it doesn't make you look buttoned up. Plus, it leaves room for some imagination. That's what makes dating fun!

True to the motto: less is more. Many such stylish tops can be found at Bugatti.

Don't: Extreme evening make-up

Of course, you want to show off your best side when it comes to a first date. And makeup is certainly not a total faux pas.

However, if you want your date to recognize you on the street and you're not an opera diva, wearing too much eye-catching makeup for a first meeting might be a bit excessive.

Do: Subtle natural make-up

Light makeup is more beautiful and appropriate, as it makes you feel comfortable and allows the person you're talking to to get to know you personally and without a mask.

Even though many women appreciate perfect makeup, most men prefer the natural look.

Don't: Tight bun

In fact, a bun, no matter how practical and fashionable, seems to be frowned upon among men. Perhaps it simply appears too strict or too serious to the men of the world.

Do: Open hair

If you're unsure how to style your hair for a first date, just leave it down. Most men like that. Of course, you definitely shouldn't change your look for your date. If you're someone who likes to wear a bun every day, you certainly don't have to hide it from your date!

Don't: High heels

Especially if you don't know exactly how tall your date is, you should avoid wearing heels that are too high, as many men tend to feel intimidated by women who are taller than them. If that doesn't bother you, you can of course still wear heels.

Do: Flat shoes or light heels

Regular sneakers won't detract from your style at all, and you'll come across as more relaxed. You might even signal to the man that you're the kind of woman you can literally steal the horses with. If the location for the first date is a bit more chic and sneakers might be too casual, trendy lace-ups or pumps with a slight heel are your first choice.

Don't: dungarees

Yes, they're incredibly comfortable, and since overalls have crept back into fashion and become a thing, you might think they'd be perfectly acceptable for a first date. But honestly, that might just remind him of his childhood and send you straight into the unexpected friend zone.

Do: Play it safe

Instead, you should wear your tried-and-true skinny jeans and build your outfit around them. But if you're unsure what to wear, a summer dress is a pretty safe bet. According to surveys, the majority of men like it.

Styling rules for men

Don't: Flood trousers

The high-water look is almost a guarantee that you won't get a second date. This faux pas is the absolute king of no-nos. It signals to your partner that you can't dress appropriately and are perhaps rather clumsy in other areas of life as well.

But: Of course, this doesn't mean the cool flanking look, but rather pants that really don't fit you!

Styling rules for men

Do: Correct leg length

So you should definitely make sure to wear trousers with the right leg length or try out a cool flanking look.

Matching trousers for the first date are available, among other places, in the bugatti online shop.

Don't: Paint accidents

Pants should be plain and solid, while bolder colors are acceptable for the top. This doesn't necessarily mean a Hawaiian shirt, though! Shoes should also be color-coordinated with the outfit.

Do: A color-coordinated outfit

Colorful shirts should be deliberately paired with simple trousers and worn with dark socks. This way, the smart shirt takes center stage and the overall look appears harmonious. Too many splashes of color would lack a clear line.

Don't: Too casual outfits

Of course, your potential sweetheart wants to get to know you as you really are. However, an outfit that's too sporty or casual also signals that you haven't put much thought into your outfit. Your partner might think she's not worth the effort.

Do: Dress appropriately for the occasion

In most cases, a T-shirt combined with smart trousers is perfectly fine for a first date. But if you want to make a bit more of an impression, wear a cool shirt or a modern knit sweater .

Extra tip: subtle accessories

Accessories like a leather belt in a matching color to your shoes and a classic watch will give your first date outfit the perfect finishing touch, sure to impress. Depending on the season, a matching jacket is also a good idea. You can find chic accessories in the bugatti online shop.

What applies to both sexes

Don't: Too much perfume

There's certainly nothing wrong with a delicate scent that underlines your personality. However, surrounding yourself with a rather pungent cloud of scent isn't particularly appealing.

So don’t overdo it, just show up to the date looking well-groomed.

Do: Stay true to yourself

If your personality is defined by dungarees or brightly colored shirts , you shouldn't change that just for a first date. Ultimately, you want to find someone who's right for you when dating, and your partner wants to get to know you authentically.

Ultimately, the question of styling is of course only one part of the whole and appearance has more of a supporting effect when it comes to the question of who you are sitting opposite.

The perfect piece of clothing for a first date?

The perfect piece of clothing for that very special first date with Mr. or Mrs. Right: Does such a thing even exist? There's no single answer to this question, but there are certain aspects to consider.

A fashion psychologist advises that the outfit should above all reflect your own style so that you feel comfortable in your own skin and radiate that positive energy.

Self-confidence (not to be confused with arrogance!) is the best accessory you can wear, because it is equally well received by women and men.

Of course, the location also plays a role in choosing your outfit for a first date. If it's a relaxed casual look at a café or picnic, you can dress up for a potential dinner date with an elegant dress , a chic jacket , or even a suit.

Conclusion on the outfit for the first date

Your outfit for your first date should, of course, look well-groomed and lay the foundation for a good impression. In the end, it all comes down to whether the chemistry between two people is right. No terrible high-water pants, no beautiful dress, and no perfectly coordinated outfit can change that.